Secrets to internet dating
I was giving him some advice on property at his house and he asked: ‘So when are we going to have sex? It was funny because when we did go to bed, I told him I was shy, so I got undressed while he wasn’t in the room. I’m sure there must be men out there who think that log fires, red wine and walking along a beach are totally irresistible but nearly everyone of my age writes an online profile like this. Write something different, such as: ‘I love climbing mountains!
’ One plus side of internet dating is your friends needn’t get involved in your love life, because that’s a recipe for disaster. I’ve got the perfect guy for you — but he’s not quite ready yet.’ When I asked why not, she said: ‘Well, his wife’s not quite dead yet.’ Often, I’ve seen a guy’s photo and thought: ‘Wow! Some women I know go on these sites for the same reason men do, but that’s not my style. Most of the men I’ve met have dressed smartly — that’s probably an age thing.
Hell, he was so good that even today you immediately think of 2 words when you hear Casanova: romantic womanizer. Because she can’t resist your exciting lifestyle, fancy clothes, and smooth moves on the dance floor. She’ll like it, but then asks you why the room service was late, why you got a room with no view, why they didn’t have any Chinese food on the menu in the restaurant, and so on.
Needless to say, you could learn a whole bunch of stuff from the world’s greatest seducer. And I think it’s about time that I share what I’ve learned, right? The essential ingredient of the dating game I’m about to explain to you has only been understood by two people on the planet: Giacomo Casanova and me, Carlos Xuma. Start reading in the same book as I do, know what I mean? Admit it or not, but it’s very likely that you feel intimidated when a woman mentions she’s bisexual or wants a threesome. Your male ego is used to having her all for yourself, but why would you need to? Don’t let society make you believe that women with lots of sexual experience are sluts while men with just as much skills are not.
The association of Casanova with romance that everyone makes has nothing to do with him being actually romantic. No man makes an effort of doing it, except me of course. That’s why they read all those sleazy romance novels, watch chick flicks with endless Romeo and Juliet type scenarios, and bla bla bla.
He simply prepared to seduce women really, really well. Hell, I don’t know a single guy who “accidentally” leaves a chick flick that women love on the couch before he goes on a date with a woman whom he knows will come inside with him. Stuff that always works to get women in the mood for loving like Giacomo did: – Candles – Flowers – Massage oil – Alcohol. I’m willing to bet you that if Casanova would have focused on building a business back in the 18th century?
Or who accidentally leaves romantic poems lying around on his bed, and so forth. You don’t even have to write those poems yourself: Google and print! Guess what happens when a woman finds your “secret” stash of handcuffs and the like? So how does this urgency principle, that he understood so well, work? What happens when you meet a poor girl from the ghettos of Brazil and take her to a three star restaurant, go out with her in a club where the entry fee is , and then take her to your three star hotel room? And no that’s not bragging, because think about the following. A lifestyle that’s more exciting COMPARED TO her own lifestyle – What IS a dominant male? Just because she’s religious doesn’t mean she can’t be attracted. Even if a woman is bisexual, wants only threesomes, and has slept with 100 people… And besides, women who are more experienced in bed can teach you stuff.You probably already know this if you’ve read some of my other blog posts: Women are attracted to an exciting lifestyle. Last but not least: women are attracted to humor (playful teasing). A guy who leads way more COMPARED TO other guys she knows – What IS a guy with a good sense of humor? Muslims can’t date non-Muslims and can’t have sex before marriage. As long as there’s a psychological need, a woman can be attracted. Casanova knew this: wherever he saw a woman in need, he fulfilled her needs despite her religion. A LOT of stuff 😉 The moral of Casanova’s story here is: don’t let society tell you which women you can’t attract.What you’re about to discover is how Casanova conquered the hearts of dozens and dozens of women by living the moment, after the right preparation! You see, what he would do is rent a real fancy room before he went on a date with a woman for example. Before you go out on a date or let ANY woman come inside your home, ask yourself: how can I make the perfect setting in which she will relax, enjoy herself, and let herself be seduced? Women don’t want average, they want a challenge because they love the thrill of the chase as much as we do. This means you can actually travel around and let women know in advance that you’re leaving. He would place chandeliers with candles all over the room, sprayed cologne so the entire room smelt really nice, let a chef prepare the best food ever, and then he would bring in the girl. Hell, he has probably spun around more than the world because of the millions of ignorant men on the face of the earth. Because another secret Casanova knew about was that WOMEN WANT TO BE SEDUCED. He was on the move all the time, so he was only available for women that liked him a short period of time. The big secret is this: when you create attraction and you see the signs a woman likes you, guess what happens when you give her a now or never situation? And what will you be by giving them a limited timeframe? But it also means you can TELL women you’re leaving soon.